I am hoping this is the usual rumor that bad belle people circulate just to spoil the reputation of our hard working celebrities but I just read about 'Jenifa's' marriage hitting rock bottom recently.
Now, I don't think it shocks people anymore when the marriages of celebrities crash even before someone can say 'forever after'.
What me thinks is that these celebs think it is more honorable to have been there, done that and have a post script on their CV that reads 'was once married...'!
We are living in the end times, as my church people will say, so we should expect any and everything but going into the institution of matrimony with the expectation, perhaps conviction that the whole charade would not last is really taking the concept of civility and freedom to a whole new level.
Without putting blame on either the men or women involved, I dare say couples should start being a little more scientific in their analysis of their prospective marriage partners. The fallacy that issues that pertain to matters of the heart be left only in the realm of emotions and feelings is simply that: a fallacy!
Lovers, or people in serious relationships need to truthfully assess each other perhaps with the the help of therapists and or marriage cousellors before they jump into the pool of lifetime commitments. More importantly, they should give serious consideration to red flags pointed out by interested family members, friends and even the professionals in order to avoid going ahead with a project that has all the written signs of a Titanic'.
Unless, of course there is another motive to getting married to a loved one than to live 'happily ever after', the marriages of our celebrities are not exempted from successful ventures consummated with the cardinal motto being 'built to last'!
Now, I don't think it shocks people anymore when the marriages of celebrities crash even before someone can say 'forever after'.
What me thinks is that these celebs think it is more honorable to have been there, done that and have a post script on their CV that reads 'was once married...'!
We are living in the end times, as my church people will say, so we should expect any and everything but going into the institution of matrimony with the expectation, perhaps conviction that the whole charade would not last is really taking the concept of civility and freedom to a whole new level.
Without putting blame on either the men or women involved, I dare say couples should start being a little more scientific in their analysis of their prospective marriage partners. The fallacy that issues that pertain to matters of the heart be left only in the realm of emotions and feelings is simply that: a fallacy!
Lovers, or people in serious relationships need to truthfully assess each other perhaps with the the help of therapists and or marriage cousellors before they jump into the pool of lifetime commitments. More importantly, they should give serious consideration to red flags pointed out by interested family members, friends and even the professionals in order to avoid going ahead with a project that has all the written signs of a Titanic'.
Unless, of course there is another motive to getting married to a loved one than to live 'happily ever after', the marriages of our celebrities are not exempted from successful ventures consummated with the cardinal motto being 'built to last'!
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